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Deadboy & the Elephant Men are going to be in town. They're a two-man unplugged-ish band (guitar and drums) from Louisiana that kept all my hangovers bearable two summers ago. Yet another possible activity to check out on Saturday. Tix are $12.

It's a thing. I have to drop all my previous obligations, and any lingering sense of moral obligation to spend Saturday night working, and go see these guys.

In order to entice you all into coming, I have left a taste of Deadboy for you at http://www.amul.biz/uploads/ (deadboy_10_theme.mp3 , I believe). The title track off his album, "If This Is Hell Then I'm Lucky."


Schubas Tavern, 3159 N Southport (60657)
http://www.schubas.com/

December 10 10:00 PM
Deadboy & The Elephantmen with
The Manners and
Deathships

http://www.deadboyandtheelephantmen.com/

The Five Love Languages

Amazon.com: The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate: Books: Gary Chapman
Acts of Service

While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, he identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In a friendly, often humorous style, he unpacks each one. Some husbands or wives may crave focused attention; another needs regular praise. Gifts are highly important to one spouse, while another sees fixing a leaky faucet, ironing a shirt, or cooking a meal as filling their "love tank." Some partners might find physical touch makes them feel valued: holding hands, giving back rubs, and sexual contact. Chapman illustrates each love language with real-life examples from his counseling practice......Often, a spouse prefers to give love in one language, but prefers to recieve it in another.

i think I prefer Gift Giving for outgoing affection, and either Quality Time or Physical Touch for incoming. What about you?