Making Amends, thoughts on

I had a kink filter on my LJ, but the only people on it don't seem to actually use LJ anymore, and its been months since I've made a post, anyway, so I'm keeping this public. Just in case there's anyone out there still reading.

A few years ago, I had this very young play partner. She had a lot of issues that resonated with my own dating history, and playing her was really good for both of us in terms of getting over our baggage, learning to talk through our fears, stuff like that. We didn't really focus on intentionally exploring cathartic play, but between the age difference and the particular issues each of us was dealing with, our time together often helped heal old wounds and strengthen our resolve to be better than our fears would make us.

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